Every individual who incarnates on this planet chooses the time of their incarnation and their own path. All your past words, thoughts and actions create an energetic record which results in karma.
You are the author and this karmic record is your life.
How and what you are thinking, feeling, and what you are doing this very moment will have its manifestation sometime in your future. The law of karma is a circulating system that means in one lifetime, you may be the victimizer and in another you become the victim. Your mother or father might have been your daughter or son, sister or brother. We switch roles in relationships from one lifetime to the next to learn about ourselves. In relating to our lover, families, children, friends, co-workers and even our pets we advance our soul on its evolutionary path.
On a soul level, we choose all relationships so that we can break old patterns. There are no exceptions to that rule. Parents chose their children and are counting on the fact that we are not going to play the old guilt games or buy into their drama. On a subconscious level, they are thinking, "Boy, I sure hope my kids don't let me get away with what I'm going to pull because if they shape me up now, it will save me lifetimes of work." To really love your parents, you must be true to yourself.
When we try to please them, we will end up leaving them in the same mess that they are in now. One day or one lifetime someone we might finally decide to help them break the pattern. All of us have some old patterns to release in our relationships and we need each other to help us do it.
Welcome to the ‘age of relationships’.
It’s impossible to force someone to love you. When you are unkind, create destruction towards another, or lash out at someone, you create karma. This creates more of the same kind of actions against you. As you learn to connect to your higher self and do the best you can to relate to the world with the highest integrity and your greatest truth you begin to release karma created from earlier times.
Learning how to act out of the higher part of your SELF is the challenge of a lifetime.
Simply stated, when you create disharmony in the world, you create karma and postpone your growth until another time. Conflict unresolved through physical actions, is also unresolved spiritually. This means you will have to work it out after you leave the physical body. Instead of stepping forward on your spiritual path, you will actually be stepping backwards. If you take responsibility of your part in a relationship with your parents or anyone else, you release karma that frees you from further pain and suffering after you leave your body.
Being in relationship with people accelerates your spiritual growth and awareness.
The ultimate purpose of your human experience on earth is for you to learn to have a balance of your inner soul while relating to your family and others. The challenge is to operate from the highest part of yourself and not lose sense of yourself or your space while in relationship.
If you perceive an adversary -- Your perception needs fixing.
If perception created the difficulty, perception can heal it.
In facing a particular relationship challenge, remind yourself that your conscious attitude creates the outcome. Sit down in meditation, observe the dilemma and visualized the desired outcome. It is always easier to do the work in advance so when someone tries to push your buttons we have already defused the energy.
Using meditation and some mental imagery to resolve the conflict beforehand, creates a space for you to put your energy and attention. This technique works with any person or situation that intimidates you. If you focus on the problem itself it will only create more of the same conflict.
Imagine a can of pink paint and mentally paint your adversary in that soft, loving color or put sparkles all over them. It will be very difficult for them to be vicious when you meet face to face after you have tinted them in that rosy hue. You are free to use any symbols that are fun. Imagine what it feels like when harmony has been restored. Run the entire encounter through your mind's eye while you are in relaxed meditation. There is no way that you could meet that person without remembering the work that you have done. All anger is a call for love. You have offered love instead of conflict.
Developing a harmonious relationship with yourself allows you to have better relationships with others.
One way to heal and develop your inner self is to learn spiritual tools to de-energize current thoughts that cause you to act out of character of your own essence. By clairvoyantly learning what your own blocks are, and get to know yourself, you can discover your true essence, developing a better relationship with yourself.
To learn to be happy and at peace -- You heal those you love!
We need our relationships in order to heal ourselves and reconnect to the ALL that is. We also need our support group, families, and support tools to help us as we dare to risk honesty with those closest to us. Dare to do your relationships in a whole new way. Before you know it you will have harmonious relationships with every individual on the planet and sharing your space in comfort.
When we master relationships we will have mastered it all. When we stop giving our power away to people that we supposedly love but probably need, we will have recovered our power in every area of our life. In healing your relationships, you release lifetimes of programming and before you know it you will have harmonious relationships with every individual on the planet.
Amirah, Intuitive Life Coach, helps individuals gain insight, clarity and understanding in their own lives making positive life changes. Transform your hidden blocks, fears and beliefs that limit potential.
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